There are no two opinions that Bali is the perfect place in Indonesia to combine a relaxed beach holiday and plenty of amazing food with partying and meeting some nice Indonesian ladies to have sex with.
The only “problem” you have is that it can be kind of overwhelming as to where to go (or stay in regards to hotels) if it’s your goal to meet girls here – Bali is a huge island with literally dozens of different beaches, plus up and rising towns in the interior of the island, such as Ubud and of course busy and vibrant Denpasar (the capital city of Bali).
So let me get this out of the way right now: Book your hotel in Bali in Kuta. That’s the ideal location as it has by far the highest number of bars, clubs, massage salons as well as street girls.
Some guys will try to convince you that Seminyak or Southern Legian are at least a decent alternative to stay as a single guy – but it’s not. In those areas you’ll find mostly families and couples. Sure, there are also lots of nice bars, but there just aren’t nearly as many local Indonesian girls frequenting these places compared to those in Kuta. Plus, if you stay in Kuta, you are right in between Seminyak and Southern Legian, so you can just take a trip to either area on some evenings with your motorbike (you can rent one for quite cheap, about 60-70k per day).
In Kuta you have the full range of Indonesian working girls around you, and to help you get started (and not pay too much) I’ll show you the best places where you can meet girls for sex here. But we’ll start with a free option, because you don’t necessarily need to “pay for play” all the time:
1. Online Dating Site
Especially when you spend your first one or two nights in the bars and night clubs on Jalan Legian and you encounter nothing but hookers, so called kupu kupu malams (night butterflies) like the Indonesians say, while the “regular” girls from the shops and restaurants don’t really seem to regard you as more than a paying tourist who will be gone in a few days.
Fortunately there’s the dating site:
Indonesian Cupid is getting more and more popular among guys who are tired of having to pay for sex all the time – and also among those who are actually looking for an Indonesian girlfriend. It’s super easy to sign up there, create a basic profile and then get in touch with some really nice and attractive Bali girls who will happily meet you for dinner, and probably more.
2. Girly Bars
If you look at places like Phuket in Thailand or Boracay in the Philippines, then you’ll quickly notice that the girly bars are by far the most popular type of place to both drink, chat and play with the local ladies, as well as to take them out to your hotel for sex later on.
Unfortunately, the girly bar scene in Bali is somewhat different. While there’s certainly no shortage of KTVs in Denpasar and Southern Legian, those places aren’t really recommended to visit as they are known for overcharging foreigners.
If you are looking for those typical beer bars like you can see in my picture above with bar girls employed for the enjoyment of the male guests, then you will have to go to Jalan Legian in Kuta – and even there you’ll only find like 3-4 of such bars. The other bars have mostly couples, or frustrated guys who didn’t find the girly bars.
- To make sure that doesn’t happen to you, check out the location on the map below, or take a look at my guide on the Bali Bar Girls.
3. Night Clubs
Sky Garden (picture) is the one place you’ll hear again and again when you’re talking to someone about the best nightlife spots in Bali.
Well yes, there’s no doubt that this is the best night club on the island, there are several floors with different music, DJs and even coyote dancers, and of course the highest number of young and hot Bali girls you can find in any single location.
But be aware that most of the local ladies in there are actually “working girls”, means you will not only have to buy them a couple of drinks and party first, but also give them several hundred thousand Rupiah (some of them ask even for 1 million these days) for them to agree having sex with you later on.
The stylish La Favela in Seminyak and the late night hot spot Dee Jay Club in Legian are popular alternatives to Sky Garden.
- More info in my guide to the 5 best clubs with girls in Bali.
4. Massage Parlors
You might be surprised, but easily the most popular place among foreign tourists to have sex with girls in Bali are the massage parlors.
It probably has something to do with the fact that the supply of girly bars is so limited, and the night clubs can be really frustrating too since a lot of the girls there have a shitty attitude (some are even arrogant and wouldn’t even talk to you) and have ridiculous price expectations (1 million up).
So in terms of paying for sex, the massage parlors such as Riverview Spa (picture), Royal Palace or Maharani Spa don’t just offer the most discrete experience, but also a fairly well value-for-money: For around 1 million Rupiah, you can get a full 1.5 session including a good massage, often followed by body-to-body with nuru gel, sex, and a relaxing bath in the jacuzzi with your young Indo girl.
Just be aware that not every massage parlor in Bali offers full sex service – there are some places such as Delta Spa that only include standard happy endings (hand job) in their packages.
- More info in my Guide to Sex Massages in Bali.
5. Street Girls
The Ground Zero Monument in Kuta (picture) is the biggest hot spot with street girls who are looking for customers at night. Especially after midnight when a lot of the bars close and people are wondering where to head next, you’ll see lots of girls standing on that square, hoping to find some company.
They’re usually asking for 500k or so for a short time (that’s negotiable). But be aware that of course not all sexy girls here are actually prostitutes! She may as well just wait for her friend, or be accompanied by her boyfriend who just went to the convenience store nearby.
So don’t just walk up to some random girl there you see and like and ask her: “How much?”. Be nice and polite and start with the basic “Hi, how are you”, followed by some small talk. If she’s a hooker, you’ll notice it pretty soon.
Map of Places to Meet Girls in Bali
Girly Bars = Beer Pin
Night Clubs = Drinks Pin
Massage Parlors = Blue Pin
Street Girls = Red Pin
Video of Girls in Bali
Important Note to Inviting Girls to Your Hotel
I’ve received several emails from readers during the past few months, who more or less followed my Bali Guides on the different places to meet girls. Unfortunately, more and more of these guys report that they were held back by the hotel reception when they walked in with their girl, with the explanation that they didn’t allow Indonesian guests, or in some cases they were asked to pay a “joiner fee” of 300k.
I know that’s a terrible scenario, but seriously it’s your fault because you haven’t done proper research before booking! What you need is a hotel that’s “guest-friendly”, means they don’t make problems when you attempt to bring in Indonesian girls to your room.
I’ve recently updated my hotel guide, so make sure to check it out:
- See also: 5 Best Hotels for Girls & Sex in Bali