It’s not always easy to meet ladyboys in the nightlife of Bali, Jakarta, Bandung etc, because a lot of the bars and clubs don’t allow them to enter, and even if they do, it’s very likely that she’s a freelancer going with men for money, or at least you can never be sure what you are at until you’ve spent lots of time with her and bought several drinks, before you try to bring her back to your room.
Different with the dating sites:
While it’s not like these sites are absolutely free from hookers asking for money, they would usually tell you in advance, means before you arrange a meeting so you don’t waste your time.
And for the most part, you should be able to tell if she’s a gold digger or not by looking at her pictures (how lightly is she dressed, what’s her facial expression) and also at what she writes in her profile description (look out for signs like “I want someone who feels lucky to have me.”, “I’m looking for good man who takes care me” or “Need someone take me out of this site” – don’t laugh, those are all real examples from My Ladyboy Date).
Fortunately the range of different shemale dating sites isn’t quite as overwhelming as the girls sites, but you still get at least 10-12 competing sites. And while everyone claims to be the best, largest or most popular site for transgender dating, it’s easy to tell which ones really are by looking at their number of members, active users and overall usability and design.
So here are the currently 3 best ladyboy dating sites in Indonesia:
By far the largest and most popular ladyboy dating site in Indonesia. They have thousands of nice and attractive ladyboys from all over the country. I still remember how they started out 4 years ago, and the popularity they’ve gained since then has been massive. They do a great job in keeping scammers out (users sending offensive messages will be banned), and they also don’t tolerate open prostitution/escorting from the ladyboys, which is great.
This site belongs to the same people who also run My Ladyboy Date (see above), means it has a similar design and user interface. The great thing about it is that they don’t only have members from Indonesia, but from countries all over the world. Their Asia section is the biggest though which is great, means if you visit places like Thailand or Vietnam on the same trip, you don’t have to sign up for multiple sites. It’s free to sign up and browse through the ladyboys.
This is overall the best dating site in Indonesia – but primarily for girls dating. If you want to meet ladyboys on Cupid you will have to manually browse through the users and try to spot the ladyboys, of which there are very, very few. I’d recommend you to stick with the first two websites on this list, but if you want to meet girls on your trip as well, then there’s no better platform than this one.
That’s how the search results page looks like on My Ladyboy Date (note the handy “Advanced search” function):
And if you click on one of the snippets, you will get to the ladyboy’s profile page, where you can send her a message:
All of these 3 sites are hugely popular and widely used across Indonesia, but in regards to ladyboy dating I’d definitely recommend the first two, while for girls dating Cupid is your best option.